The Reality Of Women And
Their Nature According
To GOD'S Message

The issue of women is a very sensitive and controversial issue and since women have been abused all throughout history and now they are being intensively misled by those who try to capitalize on their historical suffering in the name of re-establishing their long-lost right while neglecting their NATURE and the sacred role they are designed to fulfil in a healthy, moral, productive and good society. According to GOD'S message and Islam, there is a major different role for women to fulfil in this life and in this world. If neglected, women can be used and abused by Satan and his allies to play an extremely destructive role in corrupting themselves, their families and the entire society. After all, they are the daughters, sisters, wives and MOTHERS and when they are misled and corrupted, then the effect is obviously devastating.

[4:34] The men are to be supervisors over women by what God has gifted them over one another and for what they spend of their money. The righteous women who are attentive, and keep private the personal matters for what God keeps watch over. As for those women from whom you fear a rebellion, then you shall advise them, and abandon them in the bedchamber, and beat them; and if they obey you, then do not seek a way over them; God is High, Great.

Be aware of the fact that the above verse is in no way permission for men to abuse and torture women at all...Why? Because this law applies to a righteous compassionate Islamic society and it is just meant to set the standard that if in the rare occasion that a woman violate her oath to be loyal and obedient to a man and jeopardize the stability of the family while she continues to be married to him, then she should expect those possible consequences.

This law is meant to set the standard for the whole society to reckon with and to  men and women to consider BEFORE they get married which will contribute to a clear and unambiguous relationship

Additionally, obviously and in-light of the general goal of GOD'S message and the general Islamic believe and way of life; the beating in that sense it not meant to be severe or harmful; it is just meant to be as a last attempt to reinforce the man's natural authority in the family.

The above verse sets the standard and makes it clear that the marriage institution is not a place for constant conflict, struggle, and betrayal. when a woman accepts a man as a husband, naturally and according to GOD'S message, she accepts his authority over her or else, he is not being a rightful man and he is not fulfilling his righteoue role in the family.

Based on that agreed-to authority and, although the man MUST be as fair and as kind and considerate with his wife as possible, the fact remains that according to GOD'S commandment the woman MUST accept that the final saying belongs to the man and that is the end of it BEFORE she marries him.

If she changes her mind along the way, then she can ask for a divorce ANYTIME and that is the end of marriage. According to the nature of women, they are emotional and given the chance, they tend to be vulnerable and they can prolong conflicts and cause constant arguments that can cause serious disruption to the normal hierarchy of the family which has a very destructive and devastating effect on everyone in the family and henceforth in the entire society.

The above mentioned verse and commandment shows how GOD, throughout the escalating rebellious situation, makes it increasingly clear that the authority belongs to the man and if the woman is increasingly and al through the detriorating situation is convinced that the husband is not acceptable to her, she can exit at any stage BEFORE the beating stage. or else the man has the right to make that reality clear to her in a last attempt to save the relationship and the sacred family unity. Ultimately and after all the consensus and practical attempts to find a good fair and practical solution, the bottom line is in the fact that the woman has no better choice but to make up here mind by either putting up or giving up.

Although this commandment might appear to be harsh to most people who are not guided enough to see the wisdom of it, be assured that this belief and this commandment is the best solution to everyone involved which will save the spouses, the children, and the families and societies as a whole countless problems and court-cases and lots of time-wasted suffering, animosity, and agony and will have a considerable positive impact on the moral standards on the society.

As we witness nowadays and especially in the western countries, women have been deceived OUT of their nature, placed in awkward positions were they constantly try to fit in the man's position. By all kinds of legislation and by just about every media machine, they are being systematically and religiously led to believe that it is degrading to be a housewife or to be an obedient wife, and they are constantly provided with every excuse to rebel against the man, while at the same time they are being used and abused to play a very wicked destructive role in life which results in corrupted societies.

Legislators and the media are being clearly ignorant and/or deceptive about the degrading situation of the women and the deteriorating situation of the society as a whole. From large divorce rates, to single parenting, from high court cases to all kinds of constant vicious cycles of problems, animosity and broken homes to suffering children and drug problems to teen pregnancy and prostitution and sexual diseases—a very imbalanced and disrupted society in every aspect.

Genuine Islam is all about attaining and establishing and maintaining the balance in everything (the balance also means justice) Not like the Traditional counterfeit so-called Islam that oppresses women and degrades them and not like so-called atheism, secularism, feminism and liberalism that deceive, use, and abuse the woman in many ways including by encouraging them to play a very disruptive wicked role in undermining the man's position in the family's natural structure and hierarchy and in vain constantly attempting to fulfill his position in life while leaving the family’s NATURAL structure in shambles. In the process, women are being used and are playing a destructive role in life in terms of lust, sexuality, and all kinds of chaotic, endless so-called romantic ventures that leads to nothing but jealousy, heartaches, animosity and hardship.

It is fair to say that although women are responsible to a certain extend, the fact remains that of the most part, they reacted to an unfair and chaotic and evil situation that was caused by men.

Finally, Islam is the way to go, the utmost balanced, utmost sufficient and righteous way of life.